The
adventures continue to keep coming, and we continue to be stretched
in our efforts to do all that is expected of us.
I can
remember thinking a couple of months ago that we hadn't been involved
in any funerals in the time we have been here. That is a good thing,
of course. Well, that was soon to change. Within the last month, we
have now had three funerals – two of which were this week. Now I
have to be careful what I think because it just might come to pass.
At the first
funeral, the family asked Owen to do the dedication of the grave,
which went well.
Our phone
rang at 6:00 a.m. on Tuesday morning (We are starting to go into
panic mode if the phone rings early like that.) It was the Branch
President. His wife's aunt had passed away the week before. The
family had asked him to do the funeral service. They represent
several different religions. They had had an uncle's funeral the
week before that had been disappointing to them. Pres. Tom told them
he would do the service, but it had to be the LDS way. He was
calling to ask Owen to give a talk on the Plan of Salvation at the
funeral and for me to lead the singing. We would need to be in
Gallup by 9:30. We quickly shifted into high gear, made it there in
time, and Owen did a good job on his talk. I had already typed, and
ran off a written copy of the service for the audience to have.
Later in the
afternoon when we were just leaving the house to go to St. Michaels,
the phone rang. It was Pres. Tom again, and he asked us to come to
the Chapter House. When we got there, he introduced us to man from
Albuquerque. His wife had passed away on Sunday. Since she was from
Lupton, they wanted to have the funeral and burial here in Lupton.
Pres. Tom had to work on Saturday, so he basically turned all the
arrangements over to us, after he asked Owen to give the main talk
again.
The first
councilor would be here to conduct the meeting, etc., but the bulk of
everything else was up to us. We met with the husband and his
sister-in-law and got the necessary information, and I again typed up
a program for the services. Owen worked on his talk and then worked
on his talk some more. He was nervous about giving it to an audience
from different religions. The husband was a member of the Church and
his wife and two of their children had joined the Church in November
2013, so they were LDS, but the majority of the family members were
not.
It was a
first for the little chapel in Lupton. They had never held a funeral
in this building before. The other funerals have all been held in
Gallup at the Stake Center because of the number of people who would
be attending. I guess there is a first time for everything. We
fretted and worried about it, cleaned the church from top to bottom
(with the help of a member), and set up extra chairs. Our chapel
normally has 55 chairs, so we added more chairs in the chapel, and
also opened up the divider door to the kitchen and Young Women's room
and put extra chairs in there. Then we worried about parking because
our parking lot is quite small.
When they
brought the casket, it wouldn't fit through the classroom door where
they were going to hold the viewing. So they ended up taking the
door off in order for it to fit.
After all
was said and done, and in spite of all our worries, everything worked
out really well. They had a nice program, there was room for
everyone to sit and even park. The family has thanked us a number of
times for our help and for how nice everything turned out. They
buried her here in Lupton on their family plot. It is a beautiful
setting – in a small valley with red rock cliffs on both sides.
The Chapter
had taken their backhoe out on Friday and dug the grave, but no one
was around on Saturday to fill it back in. So the family grabbed
their shovels and did it themselves.
In between
funeral arrangements, we were able to visit with several families and
even got to hold Marianya's new little brother, Sasuke.
We were
excited to see one of the non-members that has been coming to Home
Evening come to Church today. There is lots of work for us to do –
people to visit and places to go.
Looking
forward to another new week and whatever adventures the Lord has in
store for us.
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